Was this a sign that we shouldn't get married or what?

My fiance and I have been together for 4 years and engaged for 2 years and I am also 37 weeks pregnant with his child. We were set to get married this past weekend but when I got to the courthouse to get a copy of my divorce papers( I had to have these to get a marriage licence) the courthouse was closing early for a Geranium Festival. WTF!!! That never happens and no one told me it was happeneing. I know I probably should hav gotten the papers earlier and not the weekend of the wedding. So we didn't get to get married, there was no way around it without the marriage licence.

Was this a sign that we shouldn't get married or what?
Oh, I don't think it is a sign. It is more of a story to tell your grandchildren. Right now it might seem like a big deal but in the future I think you will laugh. My Grandparents had a similar problem getting married in the 1940's. Their problem was that the lady didn't think she was old enough to get married and called her roommate, who thought it was some kind of joke and told the lady she was only 14. So she gave her the papers and purposefully didn't sign them. So when they finally found a preacher it was 8:00 at night. They realized they weren't signed. So they actually went to the lady's house, who was drunk and hitting on my grandpa the entire time she was signing the papers. ( They had gotten engaged the day before) I guess they didn't have long engagements back then.





Geranium Festival lol I hope you order a special case of Geraniums just for the wedding. I think it is your flower now
Reply:could be a sign that you shouldnt procratinate. If you had gotten the papers sooner then the day before you would have had time, if something unexpected like this happened.
Reply:No, it's not a sign. It's the courthouse fault for not posting their schedule. I won't take it as anything else than an inconvience to yourself.
Reply:WOW - well if you think that is a "sign" then your probably not ready for committment or your just getting cold feet - or your looking for any excuse to get out of getting married - personally no I wouldnt have t aken it as a sign but then we have to have everything organised at least a month before the wedding here in Australia you cant just turn up and get married - get the forms you need and think about what you want to do before booking a day again.
Reply:congratulations....





wheres the question?
Reply:There is no "sign." Get the papers and get married quietly. You should have done it before you got pregnant.
Reply:If you really love him, then get your divorce and marry the man you love.
Reply:It's a sign that if you have something important going on, you need to make sure you attend to it properly. I think if anything, its a sign to him that you don't place a high degree of importance on things you should.
Reply:Nope. This should not be considered a sign- if you had put everything in place you would not have had this problem.


This is more a result of Procrastination!
Reply:If you think that was a sign that you shouldn't get married, maybe you were just looking for an excuse not to. Don't do it.
Reply:If your looking for signs that you shouldn't get married, it's only because you have your own doubts to work out. No one is sending you a sign except your own mind.
Reply:The fact that you're LOOKING for a sign that you shouldn't get married is a sign that you shouldn't get married. Real life and real marriages don't work or not work because of "signs," they work because both people make an effort everyday to MAKE them work. If an unfortunately timed GERANIUM FESTIVAL is making you question whether you should marry him, then you definitely shouldn't marry him.
Reply:I dont think thats a sign not to get married.. thats just a coincedence.. Dont think too hard into the situation!! You'll be ok! Go now and get your paperwork and marry him now! :D
Reply:if you really wanted to get married to this guy then i think you would have gotten your papers earlier... Not wait till the last minute!





Is there another underlying issue?
Reply:Yes fate is trying to give you a sign that you shouldn't get married to this guy. It is in youre best interest to leave him and take off out of country or else he might hunt you down.
Reply:If you have doubts at all, it's not meant to be. Getting married is supposed to be the easiest decision you make because you know for sure that person is the one you want to spend the rest of your life with. I think that you should sit down and really think about whether that's the man for you, or if you're marrying him because you've been together for a while, you're pregnant, and you care about him. If you decide that he's the one and you really love him, don't let a stupid Geranium Festival stop you. If you decide you're unsure, just wait it out until you are sure. Good luck!
Reply:It's just a sign that you're not very organized! Getting divorce papers, is something you should have done way in advance...and you didn't know the courthouse would be closed? This was your wedding day! What did you and your man do? Say, "Hey, I feel like getting married today, let's go to the courthouse"? Plan better!
Reply:This is how you will overcome "minute" inconveniences in the future?





The only sign here is that life have reserved obstacles for us which, not being for dead, are always defeatable.